There’s a story we tell ourselves when things get uncomfortable. It goes something like this;
“That’s not my fight.”
“That’s not my problem.”
“I stay out of politics.”
“I don’t get involved.”
And for a while… that story works.
It helps us sleep through sirens and scroll past suffering. It lets us keep our hands clean or at least, uncalloused. But pretending someone else’s fight isn’t your fight will only work for so long. Because eventually, the fire jumps the fence. The flood reaches your street. The policy you ignored finds your paycheck.
The silence you maintained becomes the language your children inherit. We are not as separate as we pretend to be. Every grocery aisle, every gas pump, every classroom, every ballot; all of it connects us. To pretend otherwise is to mistake distance for safety and then be surprised when the world proves you wrong.
When people fight for dignity, for clean water, for fair wages, for safety, for truth they’re not fighting for “their” group. They’re fighting for the idea that fairness can still exist somewhere on this map.
When we shrug that off, we’re not staying neutral. We’re taking the side of comfort over courage. We’re letting the noise drown out the note.
Because every injustice you walk past is a rehearsal for one that will walk up your own driveway. The world has a way of circling back, reminding us that we were never spectators; just delayed participants.
In Orlampaland; from Lakeland to Orlando to Tampa, the fights are varied. Affordable housing, clean lakes, teachers underpaid, kids overworked, traffic that steals more hours than it should, and communities that deserve better stories told about them. These aren’t someone else’s fights.
They’re our inheritance and our test.
To “make believe better” means to stop pretending better is somebody else’s job. It’s ours. Right here. Right now.

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